One of the major life lesson I learnt and got convicted to teach every single I come across whether at a conference or a one to one coaching, is that is that you do not have to date A, B , C, D before realising that H is the one. Dating around or having a history of many exes is never a thing of pride, I can help you avoid that like I have helped many.
Having suffered a couple of heart breaks which by the way were divine, including a broken engagement months ahead of the wedding, I believe that there are steps to a purposeful marriage that many do not take hence the painful heartbreaks, disappointments and delays that can be avoided. I know those steps and I can teach you. Are you ready to give it what it takes?
"Our Premarriage sessions with Jackie were great for us. We knew we needed it and we are glad we signed up. We touched on areas we had been shying away from. We got to understand our personalities and respect them. It has improved the way we talk to each other and our relationship as a whole. After our sessions, I must say the impact of premarital counselling is very key. We felt at ease talking to Jackie, it was like talking to a sister and she has a professional way she made us understand our concerns. Peju is easing back into attentiveness and I am more aware of what his silence means sometimes. You know when you are ill and a doctor treats you and you feel better, that’s how I feel."
"I didn't know what to expect as I didn’t understand how the personal questions on the Symbis assessment were going to help. The sessions were a great experience as it exposed quite a number of issues that needed resolution as we took steps towards our marriage. One thing that makes the assessment stand out is that you get to answer the questions individually without pressure and deductions are made based on the response. For I&Tomi, most of the deductions were spot on. We also had a counsellor that did a lot of work on the material before our session and made each session interesting. I would just say it’ beats my imagination. I believe it will help us to make the needed changes in areas we do not readily agree. It will also help us to understand our individual struggles and support each other’s growth. It will reduce the surprise factor which I feel is responsible for most break ups. It’s a tool I would recommend for every married couple/engaged couple."
"My sessions with you were quite eye openers. Very practical, thought provoking, real life answers to questions that really matter. I didn’t realise my past experiences had any effect on my relationship. Now I have come to terms with my past and I am so excited about the future. Now I understand myself and most especially my fiancé. Our expectations are clear and we have been able to sort out pending issues. I am sure we are saving our marriage even before it starts. Thank you Jackie, The knowledge I have gained can’t be bought and I hope you know I’ll forever be grateful to you."